Wanda's Wacky Wonderful World

Darling...  We need to have a discussion - one of those "tough love" momma talks. You have outgrown the age of blaming and making excuses for who you are - where you are - what you've got - and how you are coping. When  are you going to change? You get to choose!  I am here to motivate you, precious! It's time to get your big girl panties on - and take ownership of your happy, your healthy, and your holy. It's not someone else's job. You have made choices - and continue making choices - that determine how your life is going. No one is coming to save you. He already came - Jesus lived and died to give you freedom of choice. It's time to stop the excuses and end the blame game; Find a mirror - and look yourself in the face. Say, "You've got this girl... one choice at a time!" You can choose to be happy! Smile. Love. Choose to forgive. You can choose to be healthy. Move. Hydrate. Choose to eat good food. You can choose to be holy. Pray. Read...

My New Years Challenge to ME (and all my FRIENDS):   STOP IT! STOP it! Stop it! Stop blaming everyone and everything for your failures/shortcomings! Man/Woman up! Take responsibility! You are WHERE you are - because of YOUR decisions. You are WHO you are because of WHAT you have done with your LIFE.  Stop with the excuses - and feel the FREEDOM! Knowing you are taking responsibility and being a MATURE ADULT is Liberating! You may have obstacles, challenges and dire situations - but allow God to guide you through it!  Think about this:  Millions watch Sports Teams - and the entertainment of the game is BOTH teams are trying to win! SO they play STRATEGICALLY and think FAST and work HARDER than the other team - just to WIN! What if they just made excuses and blamed all the other team players for their weaknesses? NO! They PAY people to critique them - show them where they're going wrong... and THEN they focus on turning that weakness into a strength! Then they go ...